Parenting & Childcare

Behavioral Issues In Children? No More!

Child behavioral issues

Behavioral issues in children are common and real test of parenting. Children are the source of love, joy, and pleasure for their parents. It is a priceless blessing of God and one of the precious gifts of life. Every stage of child development, right from coming out of mother’s womb, till their first few years. Brings with it the joys, as well as the challenges associated with it. 

As kids grow, start walking and talking and show acts of innocence. The love, and affection that is reflected from their innocent actions melt our hearts and make us forget even the worries of life. 

However, there is often a downside to it, guess what? Sometimes their little actions and habits become a cause of worry for the parents. In fact, a nightmare. This is when the behavioral issues in children arise and they start showing behavior often termed as ‘child impulsive behavior’.

The joyful journey of parenting encounters a bumpy road when parents have to deal with the inconsistent and problematic behavior of children. Kids’ behavior issues are not anything unique or peculiar. It’s part of their growth and development. And every second parent witnesses it, in fact, this is when the real test of parenting starts. Here you may like reading 19 Parenting Tips You Should Not Ignore

The art of parenting is dealing patiently with these chores and at the same time taking corrective actions for putting kids back on the right track. Parents of kids with behavior problems, not just have to cope with the agonizing behavior of their children. But have to continue serving their mentoring and real parenting role. So that the behavioral issues in children don’t become permanent flaws. 

Common Behavioral Issues In Kids And Their Solution

Okay, now let’s talk about some common behavioral problems that children face in their early years. Before we move further it’s pertinent to know child behavior problems and impulsive attitude once in a while is common. As they progress through various stages of the early development of their childhood. They tend to often get cranky, and a little mischievous as well.

However, the real bell of danger arises when your child’s impulsive behavior becomes a constant source of your agony. And continues to grow from bad to worse. This is when you start realizing that there’s something wrong and requires immediate intervention.

The early symbols include consistent erratic behavior, habits, and gestures not witnessed before. A rough and rebellious attitude, lack of hunger or irregular eating habits. Putting it short, all the behaviors and changes that you notice as new and different than the normal attitude.

Behavioral issues in children shows varying signs. Below we have included some of the most common behavioral problems along with the solutions as a quick guide.

1. Screaming And Shouting For Non-Obvious Reasons

Children come into this world with only two expressional tools, crying or screaming and silence or smiley gestures. They show their pain and seek attention by crying or whining and are silent or in smiling mode when content. As children start learning language and other communication habits from their surroundings their basic instinct of survival i.e. screaming and crying starts diminishing. Which they used to employ to signal to their parents about anything uncomfortable or distressing.

As they grow, they start giving words to their feelings and are able to describe what is bothering them. They express their pain, their joys. Their happiness as well as sorrows in expressions or words. But remember, children have not yet reached the maturity levels where they can express any distress feeling in words.

A lot of times they are not able to describe what is causing resentment in them and they end up showing the ‘attention-seeking behaviors’ like screaming as they used to do as an infant.


At this point the parents should identify what is causing impulsive behavior in children and making them resentful, yelling back at children in response to their screaming is the most detrimental thing a parent can do in nurturing their children.

The right approach is that parents should identify the cause of distress and work on it with empathy and care.

Parents in the early years of infancy have an exceptionally good tendency to absorb and bear with patience all screaming and crying of their newborn but as years pass by their expectations grow unproportionate.

Children are children and do not expect them to behave like adults in the first few years of their arrival. Continue your loving behavior with them as it used to be in childhood, and you will see that they will never turn into violent or extreme behaviors.

2. Showing Disrespect And Impromptu Speaking

How many times does it happen that parents have to show harsh warning facial expressions to children reminding them to remain quiet in front of elders. Similarly, we often see parents not bringing their children to official or sober gatherings fearing that their talkative and relentless speaking habit may cause disturbance or give the impression of an ill-mannered child.

Let’s understand why this problem occurs. When our one-year-old starts speaking, we out of excitement and happiness encourage him to speak. We love seeing our children uttering words first and then sentences gradually.

As children start uttering new words and learn to speak, the joy and affection of parents take a new form, we encourage them to speak. We love seeing them learning new vocabulary and in fact, early toddler intervention programs even provide help to parents in understanding speech problems and even addressing them.

Relatives and family friends start talking to children to listen to their stories and so on. This of course is natural and one of the joys of parenting. But what parents fail to realize is that this pampering can result in behavioral issues in children making them too talkative or sometimes even ill-mannered.


As a parent, dealing with kids with behavioral problems requires a little bit of investigative skills.  Do not force your child to go against his interest nor be harsh to him. Reprimanding him at such critical times will only leave his soul shattered and injured.

Look back into the routine and recent activities as well as experiences of your child. The best practice would be to keep the communication process always open with your child. So that he may be able to discuss everything conveniently, what’s bothering or distressing him, rather than being shy afraid, or worse not finding someone to talk to.

Remember that children are often not able to describe what’s bothering them. They reflect that with their attitudes and behaviors and it’s the prime responsibility of parents to immediately understand any alarming symbol and take action.

3. Problems With Meals

Food-related issues of children and problems with their healthy nutrition, often turn out to be nightmares for parents. This is a common headache for many parents, and they are constantly seeking ways to deal with this problem in a better way.


Even though there can be no one formula for solving this problem as it varies from family to family, below are three ways which parents can implement immediately,

  • Make mealtimes more interesting and fun-filled for children. Bring in some activities during meal-times which they like. In a better and joyful mood, children are more likely to eat foods that otherwise would be difficult for them to bear with.
  • Present them meals attractively and in ways, they would adore. For example, you may pour his milk in a cup having a print of his favorite cartoon character or present him salad on his star-shaped plate, etc. Children are more attracted to visually attractive things and food presented in such a way will be more appealing to them.
  • Teach them the benefits of healthy eating and its effects on their personality. You may give them an example of their favorite characters such as ‘Popeye’ or ‘Spiderman’ etc. Remember besides teaching the rational behind healthy food you need to induce some fun as well else children will not bother to put an attentive ear to your logic.

Final Word On Children’s Behavioral Issues

So that is it for now. Hope this article will serve as a trustworthy guide for some common behavioral problems in children.  Remember parents, there are certain behavioral disorders in children. Such as Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD). These require the services of a certified medical practitioner, specializing in child issues.

If you encounter continued unusual behaviors without any plausible reason, please seek the help of an expert pediatrician immediately. Also read A Guide On Child Disciplining

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